"I wish my boyfriend was this dirty" or Car Window Wisdom

Sometimes the answer is right in front of you and you fail to see it. When it is written in the dirty back window of the car parked next to you, it's hard to miss. For our purposes, I changed the sex -- and yes, the window did say "I wish my girlfriend was this dirty!". Well, where am I going with this, you ask? After giggling and driving away....here are my thoughts....

Yes, readers, it's time to talk sex. It was inevitable, wasn't it? The writing on the window made me think -- hey kid, stop wishing and start asking. Maybe she is that "dirty", maybe he is that adventurous. We spend so much time wanting things and so little time going out and getting them. Dirty to you might be tame to me and tame to me might be wild to someone else. What really matters is that we are getting what we want and if not, we are asking for it. Why be shy? I mean -- if you can get naked with him or her, you have just earned yourself the right to be open and not hold back. If you can't ask, then you are naked with the wrong person, honey.

GHF girls know that life is too short and that we must take charge. What's the point in being with anyone who does not know how to make you happy, in or out of the bedroom. Let our GHE counterparts keep wishing that life would be better while we are out -- well, gettin' some!

Stop wishing and start embracing that dirty side!

Just Throw It

There comes a point in your life when you realize that A. You're life is good. B. Someone's life is always better and C. Someone's life is always worse. Or D. Throw caution into the wind, take a chance and just ask the dude out! 

No one's life plays out like a movie, but we do have movie moments in our lives.

Grab some popcorn, grab the guy and enjoy your life!